Bump node and switch tinybench to vitest #497

Job	Run time
check	1m 20s
List examples	4s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 16	1m 49s
with-typescript-cjs on Node 16	2m 57s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 18	3m 24s
with-javascript-cjs on Node 16	1m 27s
with-javascript-esm on Node 16	3m 44s
with-typescript-esm on Node 16	2m 45s
with-typescript-esm on Node 18	2m 0s
with-javascript-esm on Node 18	1m 56s
with-javascript-cjs on Node 18	2m 57s
with-typescript-simple-cjs on Node 16	2m 37s
with-typescript-cjs on Node 18	3m 0s
with-javascript-esm on Node 20.5.1	2m 31s
with-typescript-cjs on Node 20.5.1	1m 52s
with-typescript-simple-cjs on Node 20.5.1	3m 18s
with-typescript-simple-cjs on Node 18	2m 40s
with-typescript-esm on Node 20.5.1	2m 16s
with-javascript-cjs on Node 20.5.1	5m 1s
with-typescript-simple-esm on Node 20.5.1	2m 28s
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