src: use `node-` prefix on thread names #2127

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 33s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	22m 28s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	50m 37s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	28m 55s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	27m 16s
	2h 10m 49s

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