build: add `--shared-hdr-histogram` configure flag #2219

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 31s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	2h 25m 41s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	2h 28m 13s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	3h 27m 24s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	2h 3m 16s
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