build: add `--shared-hdr-histogram` configure flag #2235

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 35s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	2h 48m 51s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	2h 51m 36s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	3h 14m 24s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	3h 7m 11s
	12h 3m 37s

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