build: add `--shared-hdr-histogram` configure flag #2292

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 36s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	2h 26m 2s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	3h 6m 41s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	2h 42m 36s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	2h 17m 31s
	10h 34m 26s

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