feat(server): New TTL system, enforce max queue length limits, lazy waitpoint creation #4408

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typecheck / typecheck	6m 7s
sdk-compat / Node.js 22.12 (ubuntu-latest)	1m 53s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (ubuntu-latest - npm)	1m 48s
sdk-compat / Deno Runtime	2m 2s
sdk-compat / Cloudflare Workers	2m 2s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (ubuntu-latest - pnpm)	1m 46s
sdk-compat / Bun Runtime	1m 51s
sdk-compat / Node.js 20.20 (ubuntu-latest)	2m 2s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (windows-latest - npm)	3m 49s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (windows-latest - pnpm)	4m 2s
units / packages / 🧪 Unit Tests: Packages (1, 1)	8m 24s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (5, 8)	3m 58s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (3, 8)	3m 10s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (8, 8)	5m 31s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (1, 8)	5m 53s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (6, 8)	5m 18s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (2, 8)	9m 55s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (3, 8)	6m 19s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (8, 8)	2m 32s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (2, 8)	4m 7s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (1, 8)	5m 50s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (4, 8)	5m 46s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (6, 8)	4m 5s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (4, 8)	5m 23s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (5, 8)	7m 56s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (7, 8)	5m 41s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (7, 8)	5m 33s
units / webapp / 📊 Merge Reports	39s
units / packages / 📊 Merge Reports	18s
units / internal / 📊 Merge Reports	26s
	2h 4m 6s

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