refactor: replace string-based activation filters with enum-based system

[daveey]

Refactor Activation Handlers and AOE Filters

This PR refactors the activation handler system and AOE effect filtering to use enums instead of string comparisons for better type safety and performance. Key changes include:

1. Replace string-based target types with TargetType enum (Actor, Target, ActorCommons, TargetCommons)
2. Replace string-based filter and mutation types with proper enums
3. Replace members_only and ignore_members AOE flags with proper filter configurations
4. Add helper functions for common filter and mutation patterns
5. Fix activation handler to return true when filters pass with no mutations
6. Add commons inventory tracking to replay logs
7. Update gear station to use the new handler system

These changes improve code maintainability and make it easier to create complex filter conditions for both AOE effects and activation handlers.

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• Add vibe-based CoGsGuard scripted agent policy #4601
• feat: add autostart option to MettaScope renderer #4600
• feat: add commons stats tracking and rewards for aligned objects #4598
• Replace damage system with health-based damage system #4593
• refactor: replace string-based activation filters with enum-based system #4592 👈 (View in Graphite)
• Refactor resource chest to support alignment-based extraction #4591
• feat: Add commons inventory tracking and AOE resource delta visualization #4590
• feat: add station sprites to mettascope #4603 : 1 other dependent PR (#4604 )
• feat: add gear stations that clear inventory and provide specific gear #4589
• feat: add activation handler system for object interactions #4588
• Add window state persistence and AOE visualization to MettaScope #4566
• feat: add AOE overlays and make Assembler implement Alignable interface #4587
• Add align action and update related action handlers #4565
• Add observer_agent_id parameter to obs_features for agent-specific observations #4539
• Add Area of Effect (AOE) resource effects to grid objects #4538
• Add CommonsChest for shared inventory access across agents #4537
• Add Commons system for shared inventories between grid objects #4536
• Rename cog_arena.py to cogsguard.py and remove unused imports #4477
• feat: enforce inventory limits in cpp #4602
• Enhance attack system with armor, weapons, and configurable loot #4313 : 1 other dependent PR (#4321 )
• Make Transfer action optional and add vibe-triggered attack #4315
• Implement bidirectional resource transfer system with vibe-based triggers #4314
• feat: support metta://policy/<short_name_or_class_path> URIs for built-in policies #4561
• feat: allow negative inventory_regen_amounts for decay #4564
• Add clarification about when to run install commands #4563
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